Get over it and grow up.
We all have problems and yours are not more important than someone else’s just because you think it is. No one has a perfect life. Not a damn soul. There is always something just a little off about it.
What makes our lives good is what we do with it and how we cope with the challenges that are put before us.
Getting out of our responsibilities and putting them off on someone else is not an answer.
Today I’m just a little perturbed at people. There are those types that think they need to be the center of attention. They will of course say that is not the case. However, their actions paint a much different picture. You do not need to be placed on a pedestal and looked upon with wonder every damn day of your life. That is how you act. The world must be about you. Lord help it if it happens to be about others someday. Like your own offspring.
There is a point in your life where you will go through a phase of living and doing what is needed to be done for your children. You will have time for yourself again one day, but for a time it will be about them. That is when we find out who a person really is. Will they do what is needed for their kids, or will they not. Not matter if you opened your legs or pulled it out of your pants you are a parent. You need to do what is right. Don’t dish it off on others to take care of. Don’t stick your family with what you should be doing your damn self.
Grown-up: Not childish or immature
That is just one of many definitions of the term grown-up. If you can’t be a Grown-up then keep your legs closed or keep it on your pants.